Thoughts on watching “adult films” (pornography) while in a relationship?

In the relationships I’ve been in, the idea of watching someone else felt like a form of cheating so it’s just kind of been agreed upon that we just won’t while in the committed relationship. Also if I’m invested in the person I’m with, I don’t really feel tempted to look elsewhere.
 

I think maybe if he just watched it on his own time and didn’t go out of his way to tell me about it, I probably don’t really care. But now I’m wondering what’s the general consensus on this? I hear mixed reviews when I ask my friends... usually my guy friends think it’s completely ok while my girl friends lean towards the thought that it’s cheating. THOUGHTS?

Bonus question: would you be okay with your significant other having an Only Fans? What if they were making bank with their OFs? Does that change things?

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In the relationships I’ve been in, the idea of watching someone else felt like a form of cheating so it’s just kind of been agreed upon that we just won’t while in the committed relationship. Also if I’m invested in the person I’m with, I don’t really feel tempted to look elsewhere.
 

I think maybe if he just watched it on his own time and didn’t go out of his way to tell me about it, I probably don’t really care. But now I’m wondering what’s the general consensus on this? I hear mixed reviews when I ask my friends... usually my guy friends think it’s completely ok while my girl friends lean towards the thought that it’s cheating. THOUGHTS?

LOL, I see what you did there!  

ill even fap to her friends instagrams idc

Have watched porn with my exs before. I don’t think it’s a problem to wank on your own same goes for girl if she wants her little happy time let the bitch have her time. 

I love the bonus question LMAO

3 minutes ago, Robelink said:

In the relationships I’ve been in, the idea of watching someone else felt like a form of cheating so it’s just kind of been agreed upon that we just won’t while in the committed relationship. Also if I’m invested in the person I’m with, I don’t really feel tempted to look elsewhere.
 

I think maybe if he just watched it on his own time and didn’t go out of his way to tell me about it, I probably don’t really care. But now I’m wondering what’s the general consensus on this? I hear mixed reviews when I ask my friends... usually my guy friends think it’s completely ok while my girl friends lean towards the thought that it’s cheating. THOUGHTS?

TBH though, I have watched it with some of my ex's before. 

tl;dr

Watching porn isn't "cheating" and I think it can sometimes be good.

Id never let my partner make an onlyfans lol.

9 minutes ago, Chris said:

tl;dr

 

Watching porn isn't "cheating" and I think it can sometimes be good.

Id never let my partner make an onlyfans lol.

Exactly this 

Porn is Def not cheating. Else i Cheat every week atleast once. 

IF my gf would make onlyfans i would take here only anal. 

13 minutes ago, SHAK said:

 

i wouldn't couldn't watching it a form of cheating, my wife does though. and if she had an of and making bank who am i to complain?

Well if your girl is watching videos with big black cocks just means step your game up. If she's watching videos with other girls then ask her to invite a girlfriend for a +1 . 

Girls should not object to men watching porn. Too much testosterone for all that non sense. Cheating is going out and actually fucking another girl. 

That said, I don't believe one should prioritize adult films over there significant other, ever. She should always get the first nut. Visa versa. 

agreed

4 hours ago, Chris said:

tl;dr

 

Watching porn isn't "cheating" and I think it can sometimes be good.

Id never let my partner make an onlyfans lol.

Why not 

Depends on the relationship, if she dosent want you to look at porn then expect her also to not look at porn. If you want to be with her for the long run that better be what you can accept or it prob wont work out. Some couples watch porn together, some don't at all. But if you tell her your not gonna watch porn then watch it then yes that is cheating imo.

Other having an onlyfan is awkward for sure.

WAtching porn is watching porn tho dont think theres anything wrong with that.